On Crisis!

"don't let other define you. you define yourself!"

when I see this quote... I am confused. 

does it makes me think that I am not define who I am? maybe

does it feel like I am denying myself? no 

does it makes me feel like I am not who I am... 

I guess that's the right word. 

I want to live for the true me... for the last couple years I always wanted everybody to loves me.

I want everyone happy... but the more I make them happy the more I lose myself... all I care is about them no me... 

I lose "Me" in sort of way I can't see myself

I am in coma 

crisis of who I am 

I don't know how to get back..

I need help..